Coming out of the dark….
This is a great initiative IMHO…
I urge you, to at least take a minute or two to think about what is being said.
We all can evolve.
If you want more information, go here…
Clyde
This is a great initiative IMHO…
I urge you, to at least take a minute or two to think about what is being said.
We all can evolve.
If you want more information, go here…
Clyde
Found this in my paper this morning…
and before you ask, it wasn’t me because I dont own a red bike..!!
I hope they catch the prick and I love that women have finally got a weapon in their arsenal against male sexual power.
Clyde
Mrs Palmer being my trusty right hand and her daughters being thine fingers that grip thy shaft so well…
Masturbation….Where would I be without it?
Answer: “Up Shit Creek without a paddle”…!
Finding sexual partners for moi has always been an uphill battle. It all has to do with my ability to schmooze and nullify the opposite sex’s cortex and I fail miserably in both areas as the last 22 years of being legally sexually active have shown.
Some men have it on tap, I dont. So I wank every day at least once to cover myself off in that area. A quick calculation for you…and I am working on 7ml per ejaculation (just over a teaspoon’s worth of cum) which I think noting what I have cleaned up over the years is a fairly accurate volume to use.
Masturbation per year (365 days) = 400 times x 7ml = 2.8 litres of semen I have spurted on my stomach, in the Fleshlight, into tissues and toilet paper, into socks, female underwear (very occasionally), my left hand, the toilet bowl, the seat (quick clean up), and very, very occasionally a willing woman’s mouth and super-dooper very occasionally a woman’s vagina.
Then we go a little further down the track and multiply that 2.8 litres x 27 years masturbating which is again a pretty good estimate, you get a whopping 75.6 litres of semen have left my body headed for the unknown.
I am going to round it up to 80 litres because I can and because I know that there have been many days where I have masturbated 3 times a day and sometimes 4 or 5. 5 times in 24 hours is hard-core I can tell you and I am left utterly exhausted but the orgasm is all worth it.
And for the record it has been stated on a few occasions that I am addicted to masturbation, and I probably am, but in my case when finding like minded women who have a similar sex drive and are happy to fuck once a day or even once every two or three days regularly has been nigh on impossible, a man’s gotta do what a man’s gotta do!
They are out there but as I have stated previously, are bloody rare and oh so hard to find for a plethora of reasons. Anyone who has bothered to read this blog probably has a fair understanding of my understanding of the female sex drive, and anyway, I am not in the mood for hateful flaming email.
So as of right now the way forward for moi, other than wanking, (taking into account my miserable record online dating currently), is too save my pennies and go back to a prostitute for satisfaction.
Oh so fucking easy tis…just like masturbation.
Clyde
This is what we, or those individuals on the planet whom are comfortable with sexuality, can discuss it in an adult manner are up against.
The Conservative mindset.
This posted by Tracy Clark-Flory on Salon originally, but picked up by me via Alternet. (Thanks to the author and both sites.)
Yes, I am an Australian. So why the hell am I posting articles about legislation being enacted in effing Tennessee?
Well, we have our fair share of conservatives out here also. I have spoken previously about one whom I converse with regularly and am constantly amazed as to how they formulate the ideas in their mind about sexuality.
We may actually be heading towards a Conservative government if the Australian Labor Party continue to dissolve in front of our eyes?
What then?
Well, we certainly wont evolve any further down the same-sex marriage path I would think. And as for sex-education…that would stay well clear of the curriculum I am also prepared to state as an outcome.
I just dont get it. What is it about sex that people are afraid of?
And who is driving this fear…a. the Church?, b. The State?, c. our collective upbringings?, d. a little of all three and more?
Are we content seeing issue after issue spewed across the news on a regular basis about sexual assault, or sex-trafficking or youth pregnancy, pedophilia or blah, blah, blah?
We must be?
I just dont get it and probably never will.
Clyde
This from The Guardian via a few people I follow on wonderful Twitter.
You may have seen it but read it again because it is a good article IMVHO.
Enjoy
Clyde
This on the news wire last night/this morning.…
I have gotten on the soapbox about this numerous times and I am going to continue to do so until someone…any fucking one uses their grey matter and stands up to organisations (Hint: two words, the first starts with C, the next with an S)
like the one mentioned in the link above.
They are in my very humble opinion not doing anything to evolve the species one iota.
WHY THE FUCK DO WE PERSIST IN HIDING SEX AWAY – “UNTIL YOU ARE OF AGE AND THUS LEGAL TO THINK ABOUT IT”…?
I rail against people with attitudes such as those who got Telstra to back down from “some” progress.
“Some” humans are such a waste of oxygen IMHO.
Clyde
At lunch today I replied to a general tweet by @teacuptempest regards prostitution (from previous edit). I think she thought I was nuts…which I am…a little!
I have thought long and hard about this profession and this morning I think I came across another piece in the puzzle going forward.
This via The Age this morning.
This is one of if not the only way we are heading I think.
Why? well…hard line feminists are continuously putting pressure on the game with the aim of killing it deader than that poor Raven I saw on the road yesterday afternoon. And women I would argue with their march for equality (which I completely support BTW) are now slowly catching up to men IRT being able to work in a traditional way vice using your body which I must admit thinking about it now is odd. We seem content to allow sports people use and abuse their bodies for a buck but when it comes to sex that is a no go area? Another discussion for another day me thinks…
Thus I will state for the record right now that those women who sex work now and those in the future who choose this path will be the transition for new technology as per the article above which will give humans the requisite distance they desire from sex. After all, it’s what we all want isn’t it?
Sad really that we cant go the other way and just open up the whole fucking discussion and allow women and the odd male sex worker to enjoy the profession as I am sure it can be and more than likely is occasionally a really great form of work “when you want to work” employment (vice the current – employer says be here at…).
Case in point the sex working woman in Sydney who looks after disabled clients. What a wonderful woman!
Another point I wish to make is that maybe the days of the humble brothel in the outer suburbs/industrial area could cease to be as well or at the very least be reduced to one or two brothels vice 4 or 5 as there currently is…at least in my area. That is only the legal ones that people like me know about…as to the illegal…definitely another story for another day!
Why do I say this….? Well one factor is…In the days when I was visiting brothels regularly I noticed that it was quite impossible to be with the same woman regularly. I asked the question of the madam occasionally and got pretty much the same answer that she didn’t know when that particular woman would want to work again.
That was and will continues to be one of my main gripes with the profession in that rarely I was able to make a sexual connection with those women I ground away on top of and on the rare occasion that I did they weren’t working the next time nor were they interested in some private work.
Then there is the internets and the rise of good quality cheap porn to get a person off. Couple that with the advances in sex toy tech and you suddenly have a market that caters for the person who is quite happy to masturbate with the device of their choosing whilst watching HD porn on the web.
It makes for interesting times doesn’t it?
So maybe we will see prostitution as it currently exists slowly die off over the next 30 years to be replaced by futuristic sex-bots whom as the article says come with basically no risk of STI infection, not that it is an issue in today’s prostitution profession in the richer countries but across the board it is going to be a great thing to knock down transmission rates by a lot and unnecessary death due to HIV+ transmission in poorer countries. Something else I just thought about which I apologise for is the issue with sex trafficking (It is easy to forget about these women in my comfy Western capitalist society). Maybe sex-bots will at least take a chunk of possible earnings out of the pockets of the arseholes who traffic women across borders to sex-work? I certainly hope so anyway.
Whilst it isn’t perfect (and never will) I genuinely hope this is the path we tread because it is high time that women were offered similar sexual freedoms that men have enjoyed since the dawn of time.
This solution is good for equality.
Clyde
p.s. Not completely happy with this post. Edited it again today but it still doesn’t flow. Hope those of you who read it can get the general gist and apologies in advance for the shit read.
At the local supermarket today with my door open just about to jump out when two young men crossed in front of the car…
The boy in front said “(I didn’t catch the boy’s name) said he fucked her in the arse…, don’t know if I believe him though”
These boys were roughly 15 or 16 years of age and I think I am assuming correctly that they don’t have a great deal of respect for women at that age based on how the statement came out of his mouth.
Makes you wonder, at least it does with me….What sexual education had this boy and his mate have received to be speaking about a female in that manner at that age”
Having said that, I wasn’t any better. I know I spoke about female’s in that manner because it was cool and I desired the adoration that the cool kids received.
It never really stuck with me though because my mum taught me better than that thankfully.
This is why Australian men need education about their sexuality. We are so backwards barely coming forward on this issue and I am sick of it. I hear it at work from the boys that I work with and it shits me up the wall but I don’t take a stand for fear of being outed completely like the church going member of the crew is. He has copped it bad and it is so wrong but the boss just stands by and lets it happen.
Fucking pathetic.
Clyde
I think I am at about a count of 10 women thus far whom I have got to know online but when I drop the “P” word everything goes to shit.
I am doing the responsible thing and searching for women amongst those with a little extra baggage and yet even with that as an extra barrier to possible intimacy they are running for the hills on mention of the word.
Just had another one now bolt off on me when I stated that in time I would like to know 2-3 wonderful poly oriented women who are able to share quality time with me as our schedules permit loving each other as best we can, growing old and helping each other where we can.
I guess it just goes to show how utterly socially programmed women are, and a lot of men too, but I would argue that women are in the greater numbers here. What say you?
It is bloody frustrating I can tell you in that I have finally found a lifestyle that I think I fit, in that I really believe that I was put on this earth to love more than one person, but I cant find anyone to love or have love me!
I will persevere though because they are out there just as I was frustrated with monogamy but haven’t made the jump to read a book or go online and research the lifestyle as yet.
Patience will win this one.
Clyde
Been following this saga “sort of” from time to time and I just want to say this,
If even the small amount of detail that has made it to the mainstream media does not support in your view RESOUNDINGLY,
better sexual education for young men and women preferably whilst at school then I wonder where your head really is at?
I cant be bothered linking the articles here. They are easy to search for so do yourself a favour and see once again the initialisation of the gulf between men and women which will never ever lessen IMHO unless we act as a nation in the interests of future generations and implement a quality curricula of sexual education covering all matter of topics.
The current “all talk – no or partial action” as I have raved on about before, methodology of supposedly covering off human sexuality is not good enough.
Let’s please get serious on this issue. Sex must come out of the closet and just be a NORMAL HUMAN FUNCTION.
Time is of the essence if we are to actually evolve….then again though, maybe no one really wants too?
Clyde
